To Live With No Regret
I've regret doing many things in my life, and not doing many things in my life. One thing I regret is my experience in High School. When I was still in High School I really dreaded coming to school everyday and I was always looking forward to college. Even when it came to the last weeks of school I skipped Fridays just to avoid waking up early. Now I really miss High School, I've met so many great people there, had so many fond memories. It was just simple time in my life where I lived the carefree life. Although there were the usual High School drama, but I never really cared. Looking back I can laugh about many things like having a crush on a teacher Sophmore year, he was this really cute 25 year old teacher who just graduated. He was half asian so he would always sees me as someone he could talk too. There were a couple of moments of "Love" & so many crushes, but lets not talk about that. I would really give anything to relive the last couple days of High School over again. Maybe all these feelings are just fears of me not being able to adapt to college completely yet. People in High School cared about me, while the people in College like the staff really seem to be just out to be making money. I'm glad the students are still friendly though. But I'm 110% sure I'll miss college when I graduate, because I missed every stepping stone so far in my life, Elementary School, Junior High, High School... I've realize over time I've change alot from the girl I used to be. When I started TVB Generation I was only 16. I was juggling High School life, and I thought I had it hard. I was so naive and wrong. I went from blogging about trashing TVB stars, to having a full spirit of creativity making new features for the blog. Since then my spirit died down with life being so busy & hectic. But I realized whenever I blog I feel like the girl I was when I was in my Junior year of High School. Its mix feelings of sadness, reliving the "old times", with some happiness. As more people read my blog, and the more affiliates I make I see have fast time has past. Some things I regret not doing in High School is knowing my School's Alma Matta, Not wearing any school T-Shirts unless I had to, and baiscly not living it to the fullest. Now I know why so many people love watching High School theme classic movies like "Never Been Kissed" & "Romy & Michelle's High School Reunion". Hopefully I can change the many things I regret ten years from now at High School reunion. I know this wasn't really a TVB post, but I was something I really wanted to get off my chest. Thanks for reading! |
Comments on "To Live With No Regret"
I agree w/ what you said. It's really important to live it up while you're in the here and the now.
At this stage in my life, I'm way past high school and way past college, and I constantly wish I was a kid again, not having to worry about much. The other day, a friend invited me to volunteer w/ her at a YMCA making dolls for little kids at this hospital. The organization was somewhere between Circle K and Kiwanis, for young professionals. There were high school students there from various Key Club singing those "hey keyclubber how do you feel..." cheers. Wow I felt so old. I haven't volunteered like this since high school.
So, just try to enjoy your college years because they will pass you by so fast and the next thing you know is that you're graduating or in professional/grad school. You will have good memories in college. Go out. Have fun. Make lots of friends.
After reading your post, it makes me want to go for more in high school since this is my last year. I've told many of my friends that high school is like a safe heaven where everyone gets to experience almost everything once. Thanks for the update and encouraging me to have beyond the fun in high school. Take care. =]
Now that I'm in college I really want to go back to High School. The more you hate something once it's gone you will realize that you miss it so much and that is how I feel now many years later. I've decided not to skip classes in college anymore bc seriously once I'm out of here I would miss it so much.
AWW! Thank you for all the comments. I really made me feel better.
Aw, I totally understand! I just finished my first year of college, and throughout this entire year, I would randomly wish I was a high schooler again. But.. all in all, I'm still pretty content with college. Don't worry! You'll have tons of fun in college, it's great and very different from high school!
Just hope so, fun would make me feel like I'm back in high school again & more at ease.
Asia, are you going to a UC? I went to UCLA for undergrad, so if you're also going there. You can ask me for advice. College is different from HS for sure, but you will get used to it, and soon you will find it quite manageable.
Randomly found your site and its really interesting. Im an pure Asian living in Asia , chinese which cant read chinese but like TVB movies a lot... confusing? well, just hope you will live the fullest in future . I have always remind myself its pointless to look back, why not do something u and ur frens will be pround of u NOW ...... keep up the good site.
anonymous #1, I'm going to college in Florida. Thank you though, you're very nice.
anonymous #2, welcome, glad you found this site. Thank you for the support.
I dread every single day of high school. Even now, I still don't know how I feel about high school. I wasn't motivated, I procastinated a lot, and I just wanted to sit and do nothing. lol.
That's how I used to feel, but now I miss times in High School.