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Love is sometimes Denied, sometimes Lost, sometimes Unrecognized, but in the end, always found with no regrets, Forever valued and kept Treasured.
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"The Age of Love" is a TV Show that just finished airing here in the U.S. It had concept slightly different of other Reality/Love TV Shows. A 30 year old pro tennis player had to pick a love out of two groups of women. One group in their 20's with the youngest being 21, and another group in their 40's with the oldest being 48. The show wasn't highly rated because viewers just was not interested, because they all knew he would go for the younger woman. In the end, he chose a 25 year old over a 48 year old. Viewer's instincts were right.
The concept of "Age Doesn't Matter" is very popular these days. However, contrary to what you might have thought this post was about, I believe Age Does Matter. Hence the oxymoron opening question. Through the last few series in recent years which feature older woman/younger man relationship a new phrase was coined, "Big Sister" relationships. I think its total BULL, and everytime I hear it I thing its the stupidest thing ever. What kind of world do we live in where we say we're open to these types of relationships, but we call women who are in it "Big Sisters" like its incest or something. Though these relationships are made mainstream by movies, tv series, etc. but in reality there aren't that many of these type of relationships, and barely any of them ever work out. In La femme Desperado, Raymond Lam & Melissa Ng were in a 'Big Sister' relationship, but in real life Melissa's secret husband is confirmed to be older than her, and Ray's current rumor girlfriend (Linda Chung) is actually younger than him.
With so much limelight shinning on the 'big sister' relationship people lose sight of the traditional older male/younger female relationship. These marriages have actually been the most successful. The fact is all women is do not like looking old. When your husband looks younger than you, then it simply makes you feel old & look old. Men also age alot slower than women, they "mature" & look more rugged while women just simply get older. Besides that you have to admit, older men have more mature perspectives and have their priorities straight. When you're a young girl dating someone 5-10-15 years older than you seems like you'll never do, but I've learn as you age & meet more people who have experience with love you'll be more familiar with the concept because it will be common. Women seem to be more comfortable in these relationships.
Any Celeb. "Big Sister" relationships will be brought to attention nomatter what's the difference, 2-4 years is all it takes to cause a stir. But when it comes to the opposite, not even a 12 year or up difference will matter. Here are examples of some true relationship & trustworthy rumor relationships in the HK entertainment circle. There are just so many of these, we'll be here until tomorow if I named all.
Cindy Au: 16 Dec, 1979 ==> 15 Years <== Roger Kwok: 9 Oct. 1964
Gaile Lok: Aug. 22, 1980 ==> 14 Years <== Leon Lai: 11 Dec, 1966
Niki Chow: 30 Aug. 1979 ==> 10 Years <== Kevin Cheng: Aug. 15, 1969
Bernice Liu: Jan. 6, 1979 ==> 8 Years <== Moses Chan: 16 April, 1971
Linda Chung: April 9, 1984 ==> 4 Years <== Raymond Lam: Dec 8, 1979
Kenix Kwok: 27 Nov. 1969 ==> 2 Years <== Frankie Lam: 19 Dec 1967